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29
Jan

3 Simple Ways Women Can Attract a Man

 
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You never get a second chance to make a first impression. This goes for interfacing with people on the job and while trying to meet that special someone. 
 
I’ve seen so many women try their best to get noticed by men. I realize that many of the makeup choices, shoes selections, and form fitting dresses being worn are valiant attempts to catch the right man’s eye.
 
Some of you women even go through countless hours of metamorphosis grooming for a few hours out on the town.
 
It’s safe to say that the physical attraction is how it all starts on the dating scene. Our eyes are what leads us to want to get to know someone. I'm not breaking news, here.  Sometimes that leads to something promising and other times, it absolutely nothing beyond the exterior. 
 
I say that because I’ve recently had several women ask me my opinion on what to do to attract a man. They want to be loved but don't know if they are doing something to sabotage themselves or push men away. So in the spirit of giving back to the community, I’m going to let our women readers in on a few of those simple things that catch a man's eye. Read moreRead more
12
Oct

How Do You Choose Friends After A Break Up?

Love Jones 

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The other day, my wife and I were watching one of our favorite movies Love Jones. Throughout the movie and the interactions with the main character’s (Larenz Tate) friends, it made me think a bit.
 
Being in relationships, more often than not, you eventually begin hanging out with other couples you meet via friendship. These are couples you probably enjoy doing the same things with. And over time, you form a tight bond by spending lots of time together. Read moreRead more
25
Sep

7 Ways to Turn a Man Off

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There are so many steps that women take to get a man's attention.  Ladies, we know you mean well, and we do really appreciate all that you do. But there are also some things that you may unknowingly be doing that is driving your man or dates crazy.
 
So in true Men’s Playbook style, I am going to give you my top seven ways to turn a man off. Read moreRead more
23
Sep

“Ask Us” Wednesday #4: No More Children

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Today is "Ask Us" Wednesday. This gives readers a chance to submit a problem, question or dilemma to Men’s Playbook for our opinion.  This week’s question comes from MP reader Sherica:

I am 31 and got my own everything. I just want a REAL man to treat me and my baby girl correct. BUT I DON’T WANT ANY MORE KIDS! I only have 1 (child), however I am good with that!  A very good friend said I shouldn’t tell (a guy) this off the rip. Why not? I am too grown for that! If u want more kids, that means we not a match. Am I right? Read moreRead more

17
Sep

Oh, She’s Just My Buddy: Can Men and Women Really Just Be Friends?

Can we be friends? 

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The other day a friend and I were talking about men and women being platonic friends. The conversation was really interesting and made me think about a situation I had when I was in college dating a young lady. I lived off campus solo (great times!) and had a really cool female friend who live in an apartment complex across the street. 

The friend and I actually met working at the same company. We clicked immediately and would begin to hang out, carpool to work, grab bites to eat, etc. No level of sexual attraction or wanting to date was ever between us. She was really just a super cool person to be friends with. Read moreRead more

2
Sep

“Ask Us” Wednesday #2: What Does He Really Mean?

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Today is "Ask Us" Wednesday. This gives readers a chance to submit a problem, question or dilemma to Men’s Playbook for our opinion.  This week’s comes from Keisha.

My ex-boyfriend (Kevin) and I met when I was about 19. We had a long distance relationship. We started dating about 3 months after we met.  We dated for about 6 months. Before I dated him, I dated another guy that pretty much dogged me out. After we broke up, I started back with the "dog" and ended up pregnant. Read moreRead more

28
Aug

5 Mistakes Single Women Make with Men and Their Money

This is a guest post from personal finance blogger Shawanda Greene, CPA. Follow her on Twitter.

It's painful to watch fellow single women who are otherwise responsible with their money make decisions that are financially devastating when it comes to men. The same amount of effort that goes in to making money, should go in to keeping it and making it grow. Unfortunately, people close to you can function as a never ending leak to your bank account. Here are five financial faux pas I've seen single women make with men and their money. Read moreRead more

26
Aug

“Ask Us” Wednesdays #1: Sleeping Beauties

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As we mentioned last week, today is our first "Ask Us" Wednesday (going forward, we’ll use the acronym AUW). This gives readers a chance to submit a problem, question or dilemma to Men’s Playbook for our opinion.  Our first AUW comes from Al.  Here’s what Al submitted:

I’m engaged to a beautiful woman that has a 9 year old daughter.  They have been sleeping in the bed together since the child’s birth.  Am I wrong to ask her to change this?

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30
Jul

3 Things Not To Do On A First Date

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Ok, so we’ve all been on them.  Either you’ve asked someone out or been approached to go out on a date.  A first date, that is!  First dates can often times be one of the most nerve-wrecking experiences if you’re not careful.  The anticipation coupled with the planning is enough to make anyone go crazy.

Guys, we can get so nervous about the impending date that it screws up our normal thought process.  It’s imperative that we get our emotions in check because there are a few things that you may mention on a first date that will guarantee that you won’t get to have a second one.  Here are a few of the deal-breakers: Read moreRead more

29
Jul

How To Date A Single Mother – Part Two

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In Part One of our How To Date A Single Mother series, we asked three single mothers to share some of their experiences and insight regarding their background and expectations when dating.  first five questions they answered were:

  

What was the nature of you becoming a single mother?
What have you realized is important to you when looking for a mate that wasn’t a focus before you became a single mother?
What mistakes do guys tend to make when getting to know or date you, now that you’re a single mother?
Have you ever had a guy attracted to you and then back off once he found out you were a single mother? If so, tell us about that.
After becoming a single mother, were you apprehensive about dating again? Why or why not?

 

Now, the moment you were waiting for!  We are going to display the last five questions along with the single moms’ answers.  Here we go! Read moreRead more

27
Jul

How To Date A Single Mother – Part One

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Let’s face it.  Any bachelor who is looking for love is bound to cross paths with a single mother.  Often deemed a daunting and darn near impossible task, dating a single mother doesn’t have to be if you know what is required.

Guys, the time is over for guessing what a single mother wants and demands from you when dating her.  So instead of us offering advice, we have enlisted the help of three single moms who agreed to answer some questions on their background and experiences.  Maybe you may find that some of your approaches have been way off base. So, with no further ado, let’s meet our ladies.  Read moreRead more