How Much is Too Much?
We all got that close friend that we talk to about life and relationships. That person that you confide in. You may get some advice from them or maybe they just lend you an ear. Whatever the case may be they know some of the most intimate details about you and your life.
One of the main topics in your discussions is the obvious, relationships. Maybe you talk about things like cheating, the bedroom or finances. This is your best friends , nothing is off limits. Or is it? Read more
How Do You Choose Friends After A Break Up?
Do Relationship Ultimatums Work?
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Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater? [Question of the Week]
A few comments left on MP have been left talking about troubled relationships with a cheater. Most of these have been ladies asking our for our thoughts, but we’ve had a man or two in the same boat. And sense no one likes the feeling of being cheated on, we thought the subject was worthy of a Question of the Week. Read more
Remain Friends With Ex’s Family: Fair or Foul? [Question of The Week]
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When you are in a long term relationship or dating someone, it is common to grow very close with your mate’s family. You celebrate important events like birthdays and holidays together. You grow to enjoy each others’ company by having dinner with these people. You may hang out with them even if your mate isn’t around. A bond has formed. You almost become a part of their family.
After the time you have spent getting to know your mate and his/her family, the worse thing happens. The relationship ends!
Now, not only are you not breaking ties with your ex, but also his/her family. Or do you have to? After the relationship ends, should the relationship with the family end as well? Read more
What Are Grown Men Too Old To Do? [Question of the Week]
Are Highly Successful Black Women Intimidating? [Question of the Week]
The title of this post may say it all for some and leave others scratching their heads. But the discussion is worth having and the question is worth asking.
Let me preface this diatribe by stating that this blog, although written by two black males, is not solely intended to be a "black" blog. Nor are the subjects written for any particular audience in mind. As stated in the About page, it’s conversations about real life from a male’s point of view. Ok, let’s continue. Read more
What Are Your Relationship Deal Breakers?
Where’s your checklist? What checklist, you ask? You know, the one that has the actions, habits and tendencies that you will absolutely not accept while looking for love, dating or in a marriage. Everyone has one. It may not be in written form, but it does exist.
Having deal breakers when dating or being in a committed relationship gives us a sense of empowerment. We know that if someone engages in one of our deal breakers, it’s time to head to the exit without a second thought. Read more
Athletes: Role Models or Just Entertainers?
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Today, it’s becoming harder to tell the difference between ESPN’s SportsCenter or the police blotter and Access Hollywood. Our athletes and sports figures have become much bigger focuses because of varying legal issues and moral indiscretions. Recent weeks and months have spotlighted a number of sports figures that have had off the court/field problems as Michael Vick, Rick Pitino, Dante Stallworth, Steve McNair, Brandon Marshall and Alex Rodriguez just to name a few.
Whether it be breaking the law, infidelity, or steroids allegations, the increase in media outlets does a great job putting a bigger emphasis on these issues. That gives more children to learn about the other side of their favorite sports stars.
If you recall, Nike and Charles Barkley created a controversial commercial about how athletes are not role models in 1993. Check it out below.
In the commercial, Charles claims that he (and all athletes) are paid to entertain and help their team while parents should be the role models.
So this week’s Question of the Week is:
Are athletes role models?
We’d like to get your take on this question. Should we view athletes merely as entertainers or do they have a greater responsibility that goes beyond the sport? We look forward to your responses. Let us know what you think by leaving a comment below.