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How to Make Breakfast in Bed

Breakfast in Bed

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Whether you're married, in a relationship or casually dating, you should know by now that doing something unexpected is always well received. Do something special to surprise your mate and more often than not, you'll have them falling all over you.

The problem that many of us encounter is we frequently make a couple of common mistakes when trying to surprise someone:

  1. Focusing on the material purchases like jewelry, clothes, shoes, etc. Not saying that won't go over well with a person, but at some point it is nice to see something with a little extra thought and effort put into it.
  2. Waiting until a birthday, anniversary or other significant event/day to do something special for someone.  Just because can be as good or even better!

A breakfast in bed is a great romantic gesture that is very adaptable. It’s miles better than breakfast at the best restaurant and will get way more respect. The great thing about this is that it can serve not only as a romantic gesture but also a great apology for a mishap or fight you’ve had. Sounds good? Well let’s continue. … Continue Reading

11 Amazingly Cheap and Easy Romantic Ideas

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Newsflash, Newsflash!!! The economy is awful right now. And when times are tough, most folks are looking for ways to cutback on spending and save a little money.

But there’s no cutting back on being romantic. The important thing about romance is that thoughtful gestures go much farther than spending tons of money. Why? Because anyone can go to a jewelry or electronics store and slap their credit card down. Sure the gift will be appreciated by the recipient. But what I’m suggesting isn’t rocket science.They aren't even new concepts.  It just involves contributing something that can’t be bought – The gift of time and thoughfulness.
 
Below are 11 cheap and easy romantic ideas to share with that special someone in your life. … Continue Reading

3 Simple Ways Women Can Attract a Man

January 29, 2010 For The Women No Comments
 
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You never get a second chance to make a first impression. This goes for interfacing with people on the job and while trying to meet that special someone. 
 
I’ve seen so many women try their best to get noticed by men. I realize that many of the makeup choices, shoes selections, and form fitting dresses being worn are valiant attempts to catch the right man’s eye.
 
Some of you women even go through countless hours of metamorphosis grooming for a few hours out on the town.
 
It’s safe to say that the physical attraction is how it all starts on the dating scene. Our eyes are what leads us to want to get to know someone. I'm not breaking news, here.  Sometimes that leads to something promising and other times, it absolutely nothing beyond the exterior. 
 
I say that because I’ve recently had several women ask me my opinion on what to do to attract a man. They want to be loved but don't know if they are doing something to sabotage themselves or push men away. So in the spirit of giving back to the community, I’m going to let our women readers in on a few of those simple things that catch a man's eye. … Continue Reading

Who Do Women Like More? Mr. Nice Guy or the Bad Boy

Nice Guy or Bad Boy

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I can vividly remember growing up and going to school. Not only going to school, but beginning the process of dating girls.  And although classmates from those days post throwback pictures of Facebook reaffirming how skinny and nerdy I looked, I thought I was a pretty cool dude.  

When segmenting the general population at that time, I found myself targeting cute girls I thought it would be cool to date, court or go steady with.  While going through that process, one thing became very clear to me.  The bad boys got way more play than the nice guys with the girls I found to be most attractive. … Continue Reading

Six Things To Remember About Cheating

Think Before You Cheat!

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Cheating or infidelity seems to be all around us. We either have been cheated on, have been the cheater or knows someone who cheats.
Media has brought to our attention several entertainers who have recently been impacted with infidelity. 
With the topic of cheating being very popular, I thought I would list six things to keep in mind about cheating: … Continue Reading

How Do You Choose Friends After A Break Up?

Love Jones 

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The other day, my wife and I were watching one of our favorite movies Love Jones. Throughout the movie and the interactions with the main character’s (Larenz Tate) friends, it made me think a bit.
 
Being in relationships, more often than not, you eventually begin hanging out with other couples you meet via friendship. These are couples you probably enjoy doing the same things with. And over time, you form a tight bond by spending lots of time together. … Continue Reading

Do Relationship Ultimatums Work?

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This weekend, I was waiting to checkout at a local Target. As the norm on a Saturday, the store was packed with people checking items off of to-do and grocery lists.
I happened to be standing behind a 20-something women in line. She seemed to be having quite an animated conversation with who I guessed was a close friend. They were having a back and forth about the 20-something’s boyfriend.
I usually try to tune folks out, especially when they are having private phone conversations, but this lady was getting louder and louder as if to say she didn’t care who overheard her.
Her conversation revolved around her long-time boyfriend not taking the next step in their relationship. This next step meant “getting some bling on her finger” as she put it. Apparently, they have been dating for a long time, have two kids and lived together. I couldn’t help but to think about our Four Reasons Why He Won’t Marry You article and its comments from readers. … Continue Reading

Ask Us Wednesday #5: Should I Tell Her He’s Cheating?

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Today is "Ask Us" Wednesday. This gives readers a chance to submit a problem, question or dilemma to Men’s Playbook for our opinion.  This week’s question comes from a wall post on our Facebook Fan page by Stephanie:
Why would an engaged man still want to date other women? What if you know the girl that he’s engaged to? Do you tell her that her man is still trying to talk to other women?

7 Ways to Turn a Man Off

September 25, 2009 For The Women 5 Comments
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There are so many steps that women take to get a man's attention.  Ladies, we know you mean well, and we do really appreciate all that you do. But there are also some things that you may unknowingly be doing that is driving your man or dates crazy.
 
So in true Men’s Playbook style, I am going to give you my top seven ways to turn a man off. … Continue Reading

“Ask Us” Wednesday #4: No More Children

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Today is "Ask Us" Wednesday. This gives readers a chance to submit a problem, question or dilemma to Men’s Playbook for our opinion.  This week’s question comes from MP reader Sherica:

I am 31 and got my own everything. I just want a REAL man to treat me and my baby girl correct. BUT I DON’T WANT ANY MORE KIDS! I only have 1 (child), however I am good with that!  A very good friend said I shouldn’t tell (a guy) this off the rip. Why not? I am too grown for that! If u want more kids, that means we not a match. Am I right? … Continue Reading

Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater? [Question of the Week]

September 21, 2009 Relationships & Family 7 Comments
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A few comments left on MP have been left talking about troubled relationships with a cheater. Most of these have been ladies asking our for our thoughts, but we’ve had a man or two in the same boat.  And sense no one likes the feeling of being cheated on, we thought the subject was worthy of a Question of the Week. … Continue Reading

Oh, She’s Just My Buddy: Can Men and Women Really Just Be Friends?

September 17, 2009 Relationships & Family 16 Comments

Can we be friends? 

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The other day a friend and I were talking about men and women being platonic friends. The conversation was really interesting and made me think about a situation I had when I was in college dating a young lady. I lived off campus solo (great times!) and had a really cool female friend who live in an apartment complex across the street. 

The friend and I actually met working at the same company. We clicked immediately and would begin to hang out, carpool to work, grab bites to eat, etc. No level of sexual attraction or wanting to date was ever between us. She was really just a super cool person to be friends with. … Continue Reading

“Ask Us” Wednesday #3: Is His Age the Issue?

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Today is "Ask Us" Wednesday. This gives readers a chance to submit a problem, question or dilemma to Men’s Playbook for our opinion.  This week’s question is a bit different.  We actually pulled this from the comment section of our 4 Simple Reasons Why He Won’t Marry You.  MP reader Bri leaves the following.

I think I am stuck in the Horse Before Carriage situation and I may not be the one for him. We have been together for five years. I am three years older than him. We met when he was a sophomore in college and I was in my first year of grad school. What was suppose to just be a casual dating scene (cause at the time I was not looking for a relationship) turned into something more. We now have two children and have been living together since Jan 2007. … Continue Reading

Remain Friends With Ex’s Family: Fair or Foul? [Question of The Week]

September 14, 2009 Relationships & Family 9 Comments

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When you are in a long term relationship or dating someone, it is common to grow very close with your mate’s family. You celebrate important events like birthdays and holidays together.  You grow to enjoy each others’ company by having dinner with these people. You may hang out with them even if your mate isn’t around. A bond has formed. You almost become a part of their family.

After the time you have spent getting to know your mate and his/her family, the worse thing happens. The relationship ends!

Now, not only are you not breaking ties with your ex, but also his/her family.  Or do you have to? After the relationship ends, should the relationship with the family end as well? … Continue Reading

“Ask Us” Wednesday #2: What Does He Really Mean?

September 2, 2009 Ask Us 9 Comments

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Today is "Ask Us" Wednesday. This gives readers a chance to submit a problem, question or dilemma to Men’s Playbook for our opinion.  This week’s comes from Keisha.

My ex-boyfriend (Kevin) and I met when I was about 19. We had a long distance relationship. We started dating about 3 months after we met.  We dated for about 6 months. Before I dated him, I dated another guy that pretty much dogged me out. After we broke up, I started back with the "dog" and ended up pregnant. … Continue Reading

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