3 Simple Ways Women Can Attract a Man
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You never get a second chance to make a first impression. This goes for interfacing with people on the job and while trying to meet that special someone.
I’ve seen so many women try their best to get noticed by men. I realize that many of the makeup choices, shoes selections, and form fitting dresses being worn are valiant attempts to catch the right man’s eye.
Some of you women even go through countless hours of metamorphosis grooming for a few hours out on the town.
It’s safe to say that the physical attraction is how it all starts on the dating scene. Our eyes are what leads us to want to get to know someone. I'm not breaking news, here. Sometimes that leads to something promising and other times, it absolutely nothing beyond the exterior.
I say that because I’ve recently had several women ask me my opinion on what to do to attract a man. They want to be loved but don't know if they are doing something to sabotage themselves or push men away. So in the spirit of giving back to the community, I’m going to let our women readers in on a few of those simple things that catch a man's eye.
Smile
When a man initially speaks to a woman he hopes to get a smile as a response. We interpret that act as a good sign. I was once told that if you can get a woman to smile, then you've got a great chance of getting to know her. It sends us the message that you’re open to us taking another step in communication. It’s a very important signal for us guys. Plus, doesn’t smiling just make you feel better? What’s so wrong with that?
With that said, if you do smile, you want it to be an attractive one. Don’t think just because you have a beautiful face, men aren’t checking out your pearly whites. Men notice your teeth. Do you have smoker’s teeth that are discoloring from the tobacco usage? That can be a huge turn off for many men. So I’d advise you to take great care of your teeth. Not only is it the healthy thing to do, it will also go a long way in attracting us to you! Visit your dentist regularly and take advantage of those teeth whitening kits sold at your local grocery stores.
Additionally, if you are walking around with the biggest scowl on your face and still wonder why men don’t approach you, it’s simple. You are giving men the impression that you don’t want to be approached. Your body language is telling us more than you know with your smile or frown. So try to make it a practice to keep a pleasant look on your face at all times regardless of what’s going on in your life. You never know when Mr. Right is right in front of you.
Pretty Brown Eyes
One important thing men want to do when speaking to a woman is look into her eyes. Maintaining eye contact lets her know we’re interested. Have you ever gotten eye contact from the other side of the room? Of course you have! So it is natural that your eyes would be one of the first things he notices about you.
Eye color and shape are all factors in attraction. If you wear eye makeup, try to use whatever accents them the best. We really would rather you not wear excessive eye makeup that makes you resemble a raccoon rather than an beautiful woman. The eyes of a woman can tell us so much about you. They say the eyes are the windows to the soul. Don’t cloud them up with too much goop. Let us focus on YOU, not the makeup!
It’s Your Body
Men all have their preference when it comes to body shapes and their favorite features. Some men are prone to be attracted to women by their hips, booty, breasts or legs.
As we know, every woman is different. Sometimes, trying to check out our favorite body part(s) can a us in trouble if it’s not done with tact. But we are aware that every women owns that particular pair of jeans that complements their butt the best.
Try to make yourself appear sexy and classy as possible or it will cause a lot of unwanted attention. The shape of women is immediately noticed regardless of whether it is athletic shape, curvy or voluptuous one. So when you wear that "freak um" dress, it will stand out.
But keep one thing in mind, ladies. You can be classy without showing us everything! There’s nothing wrong with leaving something to the imagination. Most times, that’s better than letting it all hang out.
Ladies, I hope I have given equipped you with some basic, but necessary information that will help you attract a nice man. We are really simple creatures, and look for the basics when physically checking you out. So focusing on what we've listed will go a long way in getting the right man.
Did we miss any physical features or gestures that can get a man's attention? Or if any ladies have questions about what we like, let us know in the comment section below!
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