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Posts from the ‘For The Women’ Category

29
Jan

3 Simple Ways Women Can Attract a Man

 
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You never get a second chance to make a first impression. This goes for interfacing with people on the job and while trying to meet that special someone. 
 
I’ve seen so many women try their best to get noticed by men. I realize that many of the makeup choices, shoes selections, and form fitting dresses being worn are valiant attempts to catch the right man’s eye.
 
Some of you women even go through countless hours of metamorphosis grooming for a few hours out on the town.
 
It’s safe to say that the physical attraction is how it all starts on the dating scene. Our eyes are what leads us to want to get to know someone. I'm not breaking news, here.  Sometimes that leads to something promising and other times, it absolutely nothing beyond the exterior. 
 
I say that because I’ve recently had several women ask me my opinion on what to do to attract a man. They want to be loved but don't know if they are doing something to sabotage themselves or push men away. So in the spirit of giving back to the community, I’m going to let our women readers in on a few of those simple things that catch a man's eye. Read moreRead more
25
Sep

7 Ways to Turn a Man Off

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There are so many steps that women take to get a man's attention.  Ladies, we know you mean well, and we do really appreciate all that you do. But there are also some things that you may unknowingly be doing that is driving your man or dates crazy.
 
So in true Men’s Playbook style, I am going to give you my top seven ways to turn a man off. Read moreRead more
31
Aug

Are Highly Successful Black Women Intimidating? [Question of the Week]

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The title of this post may say it all for some and leave others scratching their heads.  But the discussion is worth having and the question is worth asking.

Let me preface this diatribe by stating that this blog, although written by two black males, is not solely intended to be a "black" blog. Nor are the subjects written for any particular audience in mind.  As stated in the About page, it’s conversations about real life from a male’s point of view. Ok, let’s continue. Read moreRead more

28
Aug

5 Mistakes Single Women Make with Men and Their Money

This is a guest post from personal finance blogger Shawanda Greene, CPA. Follow her on Twitter.

It's painful to watch fellow single women who are otherwise responsible with their money make decisions that are financially devastating when it comes to men. The same amount of effort that goes in to making money, should go in to keeping it and making it grow. Unfortunately, people close to you can function as a never ending leak to your bank account. Here are five financial faux pas I've seen single women make with men and their money. Read moreRead more

4
Aug

4 Simple Reasons Why He Won’t Marry You

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So many women have a fairytale dream of living happily ever after.  Getting the knight in shining armor or having the glass slipper fit your foot.  Unfortunately as many of you are aware, it doesn't always work out that way. You've seen it.  It may even be you.  Being in a long-term relationship and constantly wonder why won't he propose to you is something I'm sure no woman wants.

Maybe he has hinted around or flat out told you that he wants you to be his wife. Maybe he even refers to you as his "wifey."  But has he proposed?  No.  So with no other options left, you give him a ultimatum: Marry me or else!  And ultimatums are rarely a good idea in situations like this.  Read moreRead more